because you are good

   

 Most of us do good or do favours thinking that in return the other would be indebted to do good. It is like a trade. I do for you, you do for me. Is this strategy correct? Should this be the reason behind doing good?

     Most often we do the favour and wait for the time we need help from them. When they don't we are upset and may badmouth the other since they did not return the favour. We sulk and may be rude and may cut off connections from them. This is incorrect ! We are behaving the same as them. Since they couldn't change for us, we change for them and become like them. Aren't we dropping our standards? Aren't we changing ourselves for them? Our goodness is changing for them and that is very sad.

      We did the good since we are good. Our heart is beautiful, its large and its big enough to give. Can we expect the others to have the same kind of feelings and heart? We shouldn't.... since expectations lead to disappointments. That in turn makes us bitter and nasty. Its like a chain reaction. Do not allow others to change you. instead do the good and move forward. The good will come to you on its own. The divine power shall reward in its own ways. This feeling shall bring immense peace in the mind and soul. No one has the same heart as yours, remember that and the rest will fall into place. May we all have a unique beautiful heart ! <3